after i was declared to be apostate in 1981--ive never had an elder visit me--but then i have moved around a lot !
about 4 years back--i had my old dad ( a dub for 50 years) come to live with me--following a fall. one of his friends--an elder--came to visit him. i left them to it. as the elder was about to leave--he said to me--" so when are you coming back into the truth " ?
ha ha. i smiled--and suggested we discuss it sometime. ive never seen him since.